Best Books on Separation for Kids and Parents: A Helpful Reading List

Navigating separation or divorce can be incredibly challenging for families, especially when children are involved. Books can be a powerful tool to help children understand and process their emotions, and they provide parents with guidance on how to support their kids through this difficult time.

Here’s a comprehensive reading list of books for children and parents, covering everything from coping with divorce to understanding blended families.

Books for Children

These books are written specifically to help children understand and cope with the changes in their family structure.

• Max’s Divorce Earthquake (2019) by Rachel Brace
  A story that helps children understand the impact of divorce in a gentle and supportive way.
• Mum and Dad Glue (2010) by Kes Gray
  A touching tale about a child who learns that even though parents separate, their love for their child remains strong.
• Two Homes (2013) by Claire Masurel
  This book reassures children that they can feel at home in two houses after a divorce.
• Two of Everything (2000) by Babette Cole
  A humorous take on how life changes after divorce, told through the eyes of a child.
• Was it the Chocolate Pudding? A Story for Little Kids About Divorce (2005) by Sandra Levins
  A relatable story for younger kids, helping them understand that divorce isn’t their fault.
• Skimming Stones: A Story About Overcoming a Family Breakdown (2007) by Steve Heron
  A beautifully written story about resilience and finding hope after family changes.
• Sam’s Sunday Dad (1999) by Margaret Wild
  A story about a boy adjusting to spending weekends with his dad after a separation.
• My Family’s Changing (1999) by Pat Thomas
  A guide that helps children understand and process the emotions associated with family separation.
• I Will Always Love You – Helping Kids Cope With Divorce and Separation by Aya Alasbali
  A reassuring book that emphasizes the enduring love between parents and their children.
• The Day the Sea Went Out and Never Came Back (2003) by Margot Sunderland
  A story that gently addresses grief and loss, perfect for helping children process emotions.
• Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for Your Child (1997) by Isolina Ricci Ph.D.
  A practical guide for children adjusting to living in two homes.
• When Your Parents’ Divorce: A Kid-To-Kid Guide to Dealing With Divorce (2013) by Kimberly King
  Written from a child’s perspective, this book provides relatable advice and support.
• The Mending Chronicles of Liam and Emily: A Divorce Recovery Journey for Kids (2019) by Natalie Knox
  A story of hope and healing for kids dealing with their parents’ divorce.
• The Divorce Helpbook for Kids (2001) by Cynthia Macgregor
  A supportive resource for children coping with their parents’ divorce.
• The Invisible String (2014) by Patrice Karst
  A comforting story about staying connected to loved ones, perfect for separation anxiety.
• The Family Forest (2015) by Kim Kane
  A playful story about blended families and the uniqueness of each family tree.
• The Family Book (2009) by Todd Parr
  A celebration of diverse family structures.
• Who’s in My Family: All About Our Families (2015) by Robie H. Harris
  A wonderful exploration of different family situations.

Books for Parents

These books offer practical advice and emotional support for parents navigating separation, divorce, and co-parenting.

• Talking to Children About Divorce: A Parent’s Guide to Healthy Communication at Each Stage of Divorce (2016) by Jean McBride
  An essential guide to supporting your children emotionally during divorce.
• Shared Care or Divided Lives: What’s Best for Children When Parents Separate (2008) by Phil Watts
  A thoughtful analysis of how shared care arrangements impact children.
• Divorce is Not the End of the World: Zoe & Evan’s Coping Guide for Kids (2008) by Zoe Stern
  A guide to understanding the child’s perspective and supporting their emotional needs.
• The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing With the Emotions So You and Your Children Can Thrive (2006) by Robert Emery Ph.D.
  An empathetic guide to managing the emotional complexities of divorce.
• Co-Parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce (2013) by Deesha Philyaw and Michael D. Thomas
  A must-read for co-parents aiming to create a positive environment for their children.
• Your Kids After Divorce: The Care of Your Kids After Your Divorce (2017) by Steven Robbet
  Practical advice for helping children adjust post-divorce.
• Surviving Your Split (2017) by Lucy Mannering and Rebekah Mannering
  A resourceful guide for navigating the emotional and practical aspects of separation.
• What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce (2003) by Judith Wallerstein
  A deep dive into how divorce affects children and how to support them through it.
• Don’t Divorce Us! Kids’ Advice to Divorcing Parents (2000) by Rita Sommers-Flanagan
  A touching collection of advice from children to parents going through divorce.

Why Books Are a Great Resource

Books provide a safe and accessible way for both children and parents to explore the emotions, challenges, and changes that come with separation and divorce. Whether it’s helping children understand their feelings or guiding parents through effective communication, these books can be invaluable tools.

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